Your Footprints on My Heart

Need I say you are the beginning of my life,
my soul, and the footprints of my heart.
I am here for you, no not just a wondering star,
You are the beginning of my soul you are its end.
For you my love I am here, my light is yours,
Leave me not at your door; bear the greeting of my heart.
If I could tell you the secrets of my heart,
Say you will carry me, for the sake of love.
You shall go and keep your eyes upon my heart,
To bring a hope again; I took upon the world
A knee to all across the world.
Till the night you call my name,
I will look upon the footprints of my heart.
I know we have a destiny in everything we do.
I dreamed the crossing of my heart.
Need I know my destiny, I hoped that I could tell you,
Once I dreamed a dream of you,
I dreamed you'd say
you are the beginning of my life, my soul,
the footprints of my heart.

Author Carolyn Joyce
Copyrighted ©2007 All Variations

My Life Teacher*

Have a Beautiful Day

Hi S*,

Very Good morning!

Night has ended for another day,

Morning has come in a special way,

May you smile like the sunny rays &

Leave your worries for some other day…

Have a Beautiful Day..!!!

Smile, it is the key that fits the lock of everybody’s heart…

Keep smiling always..!!!!

My life teacher*

I'm Ok Even When You're Not Ok

Put the responsibility for your own happiness where it belongs -- with you, says Richard Carlson. Unfortunately, one of the biggest relationship mistakes also happens to be one of the most tempting things to do if you are in a relationship: Making your partner responsible for your happiness and blaming him or her when you are not!

It's a little scary to listen to many of the most popular songs on the radio. So often, the message is: You make me happy; I'd be lost without you; you are my world, or other, similar types of messages which take away all the power and responsibility to make yourself happy and put it on someone else. Wow! If you think about it, that's an enormous amount of pressure to put on another person. It's like saying, I can't always be happy myself, but if you're going to be with me, you'd better make me happy!

On the surface, this concept seems rather obvious, but how many of us really do take full responsibility for our own happiness? How often do we say to ourselves, `Why can't my wife be different?' or `It makes me so mad when my husband acts that way', or `I'm stressed because my husband works too many hours'. When you examine these (and thousands of other) very common statements and thoughts, it becomes clear that they suggest, however subtly, that somehow, someone other than you is responsible for your happiness.

The thinking is like this: If only he (or she) were different, I'd be happy. They have to change. Not me, no way. It's them! What we've found is that if you believe that the answer to your unhappiness lies in someone else's hands (no matter how much you love them), you're in for a load of trouble. Even if they manage to accommodate you with occasional changes, you'll come to rely on these changes for your continued happiness. There will be only one possible result. Eventually, you'll be let down and will be discouraged. You'll be left with that helpless and dependent `It's his/her fault' feeling.

Don't get us wrong. We're not saying your partner doesn't play a role in your happiness, or that you're not the happiest when you are together or that you wouldn't or shouldn't be devastated if your partner left you by choice, or by circumstance. We certainly feel that way about each other as do all of the happy couples we know. We're also not suggesting that there are not dramatic examples where it's clear that one partner is imposing on the other's chances of being happy. What we are saying is that, ultimately, you and you alone are responsible for making yourself happy. When your life isn't working, you need to make changes or see things differently. You may have to make difficult choices, have painful or uncomfortable discussions, or compromise in some way. But you have to take responsibility for your own level of happiness. There isn't a relationship good enough to do it for you.

This is a very empowering insight for both you and your partner. In effect, you are making a statement to yourself that, while your relationship is absolutely a top priority and your love of your partner is immense, you have the power and the ability to make yourself happy.

This means that you are okay when things aren't going so well or when your partner proves to be human. Your happiness isn't entirely dependent on your partner's acting in a very specific, pre-determined way.

You are also making an important statement to your partner, taking a great deal of pressure off that person: It's okay for you to be human. You can make mistakes and you don't have to walk around on eggshells or pretend to be a certain way when you're near me. You don't have to worry that I'll freak out every time you disappoint me. I accept the fact that when I'm disappointed, the disappointment is coming from my own thoughts. I have preferences, but won't allow these preferences to ruin my life. You can have low moods and you even have my permission to be less than perfect.

I'm okay even when you're not okay, and I love you as unconditionally as I know how.

By taking responsibility for your own happiness, you open the door to a new type of relationship, one based on honesty, responsibility, courage and wisdom. If you take this road, you're in for a lifetime of nice surprises. You'll be amazed at how happier you'll be when you put the responsibility for your own happiness where it belongs - with you.

-My Life Teacher*

Carry On

It's easy to fight when everything's right,
And you're mad with the thrill and the glory;
It's easy to cheer when victory's near,
And wallow in fields that are gory.
It's a different song when everything's wrong.
When you're feeling infernally mortal;
When it's ten against one, and hope there is none,
Buck up, little soldier, and chortle:

Carry on! Carry on!
There isn't much punch in your blow.
You're glaring and staring and hitting out blind;
You're muddy and bloody, but never mind.
Carry on! Carry on!
You haven't the ghost of a show.
It's looking like death, but while you've a breath,
Carry on, my son! Carry on!

And so in the strife of the battle of life
It's easy to fight when you're winning;
It's easy to slave, and starve and be brave,
When the dawn of success is beginning.
But the man who can meet despair and defeat
With a cheer, there's a man of God's choosing;
The man who can fight to Heaven's own height
Is the man who can fight when he's losing.

Carry on! Carry on!
Things never were looming so black.
But show that you haven't a cowardly streak,
And though you're unlucky you never are weak.
Carry on! Carry on!
Brace up for another attack.
It's looking like hell, but - you never can tell;
Carry on, old man! Carry on!

There are some who drift out in the deserts of doubt,
And some who in brutishness wallow;
There are others, I know, who in piety go
Because of a Heaven to follow.
But to labor with zest, and to give of your best,
For the sweetness and joy of the giving;
To help folks along with a hand and a song;
Why, there's the real sunshine of living.

Carry on! Carry on!
Fight the good fight and true;
Believe in you mission, greet life with a cheer;
There's big work to do, and that's why you are here.
Carry on! Carry on!
Let the world be the better for you;
And at last when you die, let this be your cry:
Carry on, my soul! Carry on!

Robert W. Service

Don't Quit

"When things go wrong as they sometimes will
When the road you're trudging seems all up hill.
When funds are low and the debts are high.
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh.
When care is pressing you down a bit.
Rest, if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns.
As everyone of us sometimes learns.
And many a failure turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out:

Don't give up though the pace seems slow -
You may succeed with another blow.
Success is failure turned inside out -
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt.
And you never can tell how close you are.
It may be near when it seems so far:
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit
It's when things seem worst that you must not QUIT

Goodbye My Friend

Did I disappoint you or let you down?
Should I be feeling guilty or let the judges frown?
'Cause I saw the end before we'd begun,
Yes I saw you were blinded and I knew I had won...

You touched my heart you touched my soul
You changed my life and all my goals
And love is blind and that I knew when
My heart was blinded by you

Goodbye my lover, Goodbye my friend
You have been the one
You have been the one for me...

You and Me in 2009

A happy New Year! Grant that I
May bring no tear to any eye
When this New Year in time shall end
Let it be said I've played the friend,
Have lived and loved and labored here,
And made of it a happy year.



Resolve to make at least one person happy every day, and then in ten years you may have made three thousand, six hundred and fifty persons happy, or brightened a small town by your contribution to the fund of general enjoyment.

Memorable moment r celebrate together,
U r my best friend for now & forever,
Make me Miss U even more this New Year,
Hope this 2009 bring Happiness for you Dear.

- Mriso*